How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 05:22
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Does not procrastinate.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How do I get over a long-term relationship breakup?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What is the story of how you met your spouse?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hangs out with loser friends.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What was the worst spanking you got growing up?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How likely is it to make a living out of being a window cleaner in a Nordic country?
That's it for today.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Ask yourself:
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Do not set goals—set systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
My friend asked my crush and he said my crush hates me but not in a rude way. What does that mean?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Why do Christians think voting for Trump is any better than voting for Kamala Harris?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What I need from you?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.